Behind every single cold-hearted, misogynist jerk there’s a long line of women that rejected him back when his heart was warm and intentions were pure. You reap what you sow. So, next time a jerk will break your heart, think about how many good guys you rejected before, for no other particular flaw besides begin too open and friendly to captivate your attention. All hail mystery and challenges, harr harr.
It goes vice versa as well 
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That’s right, blame the women, it’s all their fault. I can’t stress enough how many times have I been kind only to get only bad stuff in return. They don’t go bad because they were treated badly, they are bad because that is their nature. No one can change you nature. You are what you see, as you grow up.